Valuable Invesment: #3 7 Things You Should Learn About in Your 23s
In this century, living in a world of craziness where all humans are busy trying to get something more valuable and reaching something that is infinity and beyond.
Very mundane and sometimes seemingly unhuman. They work day by day until, at some point, they lose themselves. It would be a pathetic era in their lives. Being a robotic system without machines, they live as half robot without following their own intuition as human beings. Didn’t understand what they really wanted and needed. So we need to learn these things at our age. So we can save our lives and our souls, and live in peace as a successful and happiest person on earth. Lets start!
Your Values
Speaking about self-value, there are so many people that don’t realise yet about their quality, lack of awareness, and lack of self-respect. So, most of them spending time with mind something that’s not their business and too care about somebody’s feelings, that maybe they don’t even care or interested about our feelings as well. Deciding to know more about yourself is a good decision, know your worth and add tax. So you can instanly know what you want, identify and define your own values. Ask to yourself;
- How do you want people to view you?
- How do you want to view yourself?
- What are some of your goals in life?
- What makes you feel included?
- How do you want to grow as a person?
- Do you know what’s good or bad?
When you live in reflection of your values, you are placing a core set of definitions at the heart of your decision making. Elvis Parsley said, Values are like fingerprints. Nobodies are the same, they’re different but you leave them all over everything you do.
So, know your worth, yourself, then adjust your values when you want to
Your Goals
Goals are the main point of all efforts and output from all of the things we’ve been through, innit? In this life we of course do our jobs, learn a lot of things, leave bad memories behind, get some trauma, to achieve our goals. Then we need to set our goals clearly, babies.
Plan something from little things to big, neat and refined. Make sure alls good and perfect, regardless of what we might face ahead. It’s okay to fail and lose one, you’ll get more. Fall seven times, get up eight. Just be consistent, discipline, and grateful.
Write down your goals, and don’t ever think that’s impossible to get no matter how hard is that. Just because it’s hard it doesn’t means impossible.
I’d believe what we think is what we are, what we get, and what we want. Being positive thinking and ambitious it would be okay as long as that is realistic and real. Set your clear goals.
- Timely (Anchor your goals to a specific time)
- Specific (What, where, when, explain your goals)
- Realistic (Organize your activities or job that can lead you to your goal)
- Attainable (During your process, establish mini goals that you can fulfil in short term)
- Measurable ( create criteria and track for your goals)
Nothing impossible, keep going, Dearest!
Your Passion
Passion? What passion is? I think passion is knowing what you like and you enjoy it doing that, you have an excited feeling, happy and mindful. It gives something more beneficial for yourself or your life, something that gives you more energy to do everything you have to do.
But how to know and to find our passion, while we don’t know how to get it? Between what you love and what you are good at, there is passion, colaborations between what you love and something you are good at. For example, I enjoy my life as a writer. It’s not always about my job. Writing is not my real job just something I love. So I write something. To show people this is my passion I enjoyed it because I love it. I can express many things and share many things. Darlings, what’s your passion then? seek them out!
Your Strenghts
I think this point would a bit materialistic, Why? because what we get is what we fight for. Knowing my own capabilities to accept and decline something in order to make a decision, missteps will always have an impact, small or big one. I, of course need to have competitive advantages for all of chance in front of me. And to reach it, I need resources, assets, peoples and experience as well. I learn to control my financial reserves and returns. Strenght is essential for me to remain unshakeable and able to face different challenges. So, I have to make sure that everything is perfect, following the processes, system, and good at IT and communication, then I can adapt well in every situation. I listed all my strenghts to know what I’m good at and where my weakness is. I have to measure myself. So do you.
Your Weakness
Weaknesses have become a shameful side indeed. But in fact we need to know and accept the weakness we have as humans. We’re not 100% perfect, we are perfectly imperfect but beautiful. I think it’s okay to be honest to yourself or ourselves that sometimes we’re not capable enough, we have gaps in competitive strenghts, for not always have a good reputations cause at some moment we can ruin it, we don’t always have all of the access in the world, we are limited. Sometimes we struggles with timescales, deadlines, and pressures. Admit it. We all do our best for our lives, for our futures, for all people we love. Lack of finacial support isn’t a sin, there is cash flow and cash drain. Normal. Weakness is normal thing.
Your Beliefs
Spending time for something more meaningful and thoughtful. Relaxing yourself, and find a good enviroment that can help you reduce your negative energy. Try to be positive and spreading good vibes. When it really comes down to it, you become the person that you believe you’ll become. Trust to yourself, because if you spend all of your thoughts believing that you’ll never make it, then you’ll never make it. Doors will always open for you, don’t think what you want is impossible, cause if you think so, it becomes impossible for you. Beliefs to yourself “This is who I am”, “This is how I am” Your dreams will come true, but you have to believe it first. What you believe whats you become.
Stop saying “I don’t know what I want”
Saying “ My higher self always knows what I want”
Don’t be scared. Make limits for what you beliefs but don’t be scared, I wanna see you be brave.
Your Story
Everyone has their own story maybe today or from the past. if it inspires tell it, show it, if it’s for yourself then keep it well. Everyone has a history that shapes them, I guess you do. not always a good thing, but not bad either. There are always motivations behind actions, right? Your ‘today’ comes from your ‘yesterday’ related but doesn’t always affect to who you are today, Dearest.
|Your Grace
